Can mothers please stop blaming themselves for any issue that happens with the child or should I say can the people around her make her stop feel guilty or blame her for every single thing? Either you keep the mother on the pedestal or keep blaming her! Treat her like a simple human being who will make mistakes and learn from them, just like any other human!
So many years of experience as a mother has taught me this that mothers should normalize making mistakes, normalize faltering, normalize getting depressed, normalize getting angry with her kids, normalize taking rest, normalize not cooking if she doesn’t feel like, normalize junk food for the kids once in a while, normalize not involving the kids in any activities, normalize her existence as a human..
Kuch bhi ho..ultimately kids will grow up fine!